PRESS RELEASE – BOOK LAUNCH 29th May

May 2024 | News

PRESS RELEASE – BOOK LAUNCH 29th May

From Chris Day,  chris@filamentpublishing.com  07802 211587

Why does it take a Dutchman to teach us English?

Jos Frederiks has devoted his life to listening to what people say. As a psychologist, he has listened to over 18,000 conversations with his clients and has come to an important conclusion. We talk without thinking and listen without hearing!  Our vocabularies are shrinking, as are our abilities to converse.  So are we speaking double Dutch or is he?

In his new book “Imprisoned by Words”  Jos believes that most of the time we are talking in automatic and not really thinking about what we are saying. “So often if I repeat back to somebody what they actually said, they tell me that’s not what they meant!” says Jos.

Our listening skills are even worse. When somebody is talking to us, we only half listen because we are trying to think what we are going to say next. Have we lost the art of Communication?

“English is such a beautiful and rich language, but it is in danger.  Most of our conversations are now made with our thumbs on our phones, and not through talking.  English is now reduced to a series of abbreviations  rather than words, LOL!”

Words are the most powerful things in the Universe. They can inspire us to great achievements. The right Words can help to  find us a life partner or at the very least, to get our faces slapped! Words can even persuade us to take our life insurance!  Words are powerful when used well – and dangerous when used with bad intent.

Says Jos “I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I am not sure you realise that what you heard s not what I meant!”

Jos is launching his new book on Wednesday 29th of May in the Institute of Director, 116 Pall Mall London SW1Y 5ED at 7pm.

SPECIAL GUEST SPEAKER-RAYMOND KEENE OBE, International Grand Master and President of the World Memory Championships

The event is also being streamed live if you can’t make it. Full information on www.josfrederiks.com

 

“Imprisoned by Words ” is available from all good bookshops, on Amazon, and from www.josfrederiks.com  ISBN 978-1-915465-53-5 UK £19.99 € 24.99 USA $25.99

Further information +44 (0)7802211587 www.filamentpublishing.com

AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY

Jos Frederiks was born and raised in Brabant in the Netherlands in an entrepreneurial family. He started his career as a sales manager in business services and worked at a high level in some of the largest international companies. He quickly learnt the value of good communication and how the intelligent use of words can create positive outcomes.  He also discovered that he was a natural coach and was often asked by his colleagues for advice and guidance. This helped him develop the art of listening and a curiosity of the way that people use words so carelessly when they talk. As a result he studied and gained qualifications in psychology and Neuro-Linguistic Programming.

In 2005 he took this knowledge and the experience of working with people in the corporate world and started his own consultancy, VidaSense in the Netherlands.

Jos has become a sought after public speaker and has built a reputation for helping both individuals and companies to change outcomes by communicating better.

 Whatever it is that you want to achieve in life, there is only one thing you need, Curiosity!

Throughout my life I have been curious about the world around me and the people I meet. This has caused me to ask questions. Lots of questions! As a psychologist and verbal communication specialist,  I estimate that I have conducted over 18,000 interviews with clients who were looking for clarity. I have learned the art of listening in order to understand them. And what their needs are. What I have also learned is that what people say may not be what they meant!

I wrote this book to help people become more aware of the words they use and to improve their outcomes, by increasing their vocabulary! This book shows you how!

Because speech comes so naturally to us, we hardly ever think about it. Most of the time we respond automatically by saying the first thing that comes into our head. No wonder we find ourselves in trouble from time to time

Jos has become a sought-after public speaker and has built a reputation for helping both individuals and companies change outcomes by communicating better. He encourages people to look in the mirror, and ask questions of themselves. Such as where do you want to go? What do you really want to achieve today? These questions, and many more, are the starting point of every conversation business or personal.